What makes you feel most comfortable when we take our time?
Private on this device
A SPACE FOR THE TWO OF YOU
More confidence,
less pressure.
A little ritual to talk about your desires, set your boundaries and create a moment that feels like you.
BEFORE WE START
How are you feeling?
There is no right answer. Check in with yourself, then share only what you want to.
MY ENERGY
At what pace do I want to go?
Very slowlyGo with the flowWith energy
MY GUIDELINES
What would feel good to me
COMFORT FIRST
Create a serene setting.
A simple check, never an obligation. Check what is ready for you.
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"The best pace is one where everyone feels free."
THE CONVERSATION
A question for two.
No need to solve everything. A sincere question can already change the mood.
To make it easy
- Use "I" statements: "I would like", "I prefer".
- Listen to the answer without trying to convince.
- A silence or an "I don't know" is also an answer.
Consent must be free, enthusiastic, and reversible. In case of pain or discomfort, we stop and talk about it.