PRIVATE GUIDE
First time, on your terms
A calmer way to prepare
Make your first time feel like yours.
A private, practical guide for consent, boundaries, safer sex, and getting home safe.
This guide does not arrange sex or recommend providers. You stay in control at every step.
YOUR PLAN
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BEFORE YOU GO
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A little preparation goes a long way.
A useful question to ask yourself
Am I choosing this because I want to, or because I feel rushed, lonely, or pressured?
YOUR YES / NO / MAYBE
Name what feels okay.
Tap an item to move it between “yes,” “maybe,” and “not for me.” There are no correct answers.
Yes
Maybe
Not for me
Consent can change at any moment, including halfway through.
KEEP IT GROUNDED
Your safety plan.
Fill in only what you’re comfortable saving. This stays in your app.
Pause if something feels off.
You can leave, say no, or change your mind without explaining. Avoid alcohol or drugs when making decisions about sex.
KEEP THIS CLOSE
You do not have to prove anything.
There is no deadline for a first time. A respectful, unhurried experience matters more than checking a box.