A notification pops up. She's seen your profile. A few minutes pass before she decides to message first.
Hey there 🙂 I liked your profile. You seem... different from most of the guys on here. I'm Valentina, by the way.
I'll be real with you — I'm not looking for pen pals or someone to just "see where things go" forever. I know what I want: something real, consistent, with actual effort on both sides. A real connection that works for both of us — emotionally and practically.
So tell me about yourself. What are you actually looking for?