Clear words for intense moments
Ask for kindness without breaking trust.
Ready-to-send words for pausing a scene, ending roleplay, or leaving when a boundary is being ignored.
You do not need to make someone kind before you leave. If “stop” or a safeword is not respected, get away, contact support, and seek emergency help if you are in danger.
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A calm, direct opening
I need to pause the scene now. Please stop, check in with me, and stay with me as yourself.
Say it plainly. You do not need to explain or persuade anyone.
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If your boundary is being ignored
Do not keep explaining. Move somewhere safer, stop replying, block or report the account, and contact someone you trust. Use local emergency services if you cannot get away safely.
Read the safety reminder →Remember
Consent can change at any moment.
- “No” and a safeword do not need a reason or a nicer tone.
- A caring partner pauses first and discusses details later.
- Agree on what happens if a safeword is missed before starting.